The 8 Secrets to Nailing Your Goals

Oct 26, 2021

You are powerful beyond your imagination.

When you look out your eyes and see beauty, grace, love, goodness and the world as right, you increase your chances of creating that reality for yourself more often. If you look out through your eyes with judgment, disappointment, fear, comparison or competition to name a few, you create that too. The choice truly is yours.

Let's dive right into The 8 Secrets to Nailing Your goals!

1. Clear out the past.

 Why? Because old energy takes up space. Your new vision needs a clear path to you. If you have to wade through past stuff, it takes up energy and prevents new, fresh things coming into your life.

There are three areas you can focus on to let go:

Let go of your physical stuff. A great way to go about getting rid of stuff is to use the “Energy Meter.” Look at an item, or better yet, hold the item and ask what rating it has in your life? 10 = Love it, it must stay; 1 = It has no meaning and it can go. If you want to create a high vibration space and life, I suggest considering letting go of anything below a rating of a 7. If you clear out all kinds of “stuff” that really has no meaning or purpose in your current life, you open space for what’s waiting to come into your life.

Remember, your stuff is a symbol for the past architecture in your life. It is a reflection of your past emotions, states of being, choices and intentions.

Let go of old patterns of thinking. If you sit down and really look at your life and the repeated patterns you loop around, you will see that if you make a new decision and take another path, you will change your outcomes. Patterns are habitual habits of conditioning. We have experiences in life and we settle into an emotional pattern that appears to keep us safe.

When you’re going for your dreams, safe does not allow you to reach your potential. Stepping into and through fears is where the action happens.

Be honest with yourself and step into your greatest fears. I used to carry a card with me that said, “Do one thing every day that scares you.” It’s quite effective if you take it seriously!

Let go of old ways of being. Did you know that your body cells completely change over in a 90-days? According to epigenetics, you can literally and physically change yourself. Have you ever seen pictures of someone who doesn’t look the same in one photo to the next? That’s what we’re talking about here. YOU can change your way of being by making a decision to do so. Along the way, you will let go of old ways of being. A great way to change your ways of being is to change your habits. Make a list of all of the habits you notice yourself doing within a week’s period of time. Then, decide which ones you can change and begin to do the opposite of that pattern and see how that impacts your mood!

I let go of outcomes now. I accept what is given. I am a creator.


2. Align your energy.

When you align your energy to a higher frequency energy of trust, optimism and forgiveness, you begin to ignite flow and come into the light–out of the sluggish darkness. Fear, anger, and judgment are lower frequency vibrations and if you stay in them too long, you become depressed.

To practice aligning your energy (frequency), get happy! Dance, sing, give to others, and do loving things for yourself. Feel yourself rise into a feeling of ecstasy and unhindered joy. This level of frequency is the elixir for moving your intentions into reality.

If you find yourself in a lower vibration frequency such as shame, guilt and apathy, the road out is to move your body and create motion.

Motion creates emotion. Sometimes you need to move to release past emotions and let yourself laugh until you cry. Be wild in your releasing. Let yourself go and lighten your load.

I am aligned in my energy and purpose with everything in my life.


3. Manage your personal power.

Do an inventory in your life of where you are co-dependent, over-doing, over-giving and put up with others who are not taking responsibility for their lives.

This inventory is a critical step in plugging the leaks of energy in your life. Take your power back. Create boundaries. Say no. Fill your cup. Put your divine self first, meaning, to honor yourself, your energy.

Stop draining behaviors by becoming aware of what you are doing that’s draining you. How do you know? Listen to your body. Ask your solar plexus, “Is this feeding me or draining me?” And follow the hints you get. Follow your gut feeling. Your body knows.

I am sovereign and masterfully manage my personal energy for the benefit of myself and others.


4. Know, and have faith.

When you begin to practice the feeling of “knowing” something just is, you begin to strengthen the potential for it to come into your life. Knowing is the act of being sure, without a doubt, that something is true. Faith is believing in something even when you can’t see any evidence. This one act has the power to bring amazing things into your life.

If you wobble or doubt comes into your mind, say, “Cancel clear,” and do not let that thought or emotion stay in your body for more than 17 seconds. If you let a fear or doubt hang out with you for longer than 67 seconds (according to Abraham), you lock it into your experience and begin to manifest a reflection of that fear or doubt.

Wobbling is natural, but make it a very temporary place you visit, not a permanent address.

I am holding my vision clearly and with unshakeable faith. I know it is so.


5. Fiercely decide.

When you make a decision to do something, you set an intent in motion. An intent is the origin of creating a thing. When you decide you put into action an intention that will begin to appear in your reality. Decisions are the beginning of receiving whatever you decided–pure intent.

Be mindful though, an intent has a life form. It will carry on even if you get distracted. If you veer off the path of your intention, you may get a lesson or an experience that brings you back on path.

In other words, your intention is still out there waiting for you to complete, so be mindful of what you decide. If you make a decision, follow-through. You are then in alignment with the universal law of intent.

I trust my inner knowing to show me the best choice for my highest good.


6. Focus wholly.

When you want to create or manifest something, your focus is key to the process. Much like deciding, if you lose your focus, you lose traction with your intention.

You have probably heard that what you focus on expands. If you want to actively create your reality, then your practice is to keep your focus on your desired intentions. If you drift, bring yourself back into alignment with your intent. If you find yourself doubting, "cancel clear" and bring yourself back to KNOWING.

If you are a shiny pebble person, I challenge you to stick with one thing and carry it through to fruition. Once you see how this works you will not want to bounce from one project to another. I promise.

I am focused in this now. I am focused on my intent. I am focused.


7. Stay constant.

Constancy means staying the course as if it’s a straight line from your intention to the completion of your goal. Be unchanging, committed and persevere through the parts of your experience that challenge you or attempt to stop you in your tracks.

No matter what comes into your reality you can change how you feel about it and change your experience of it. If you decide to stay committed and constant with movement toward your intention, the universe will respond in kind–it has to according to universal law.

Constancy is one of the behaviors to practice. The longer you practice constancy, the more likely your behavior will transform from having to do something consistently into a habit. Habits are easy. Habits mean that you are in rhythm with your desire. That kind of constancy creates results. It’s powerful.

I am committed to my constancy to create the results I desire.


8. Accept what is given. Allow and release expectations.

This is a very powerful habit to get into. What does it mean to accept what is given? When the world reflects your reality to you, know that you have created what you see and how you feel about it.

If you want to create more peace and harmony in your life, then you begin to accept what is given as your creation. You get to choose how you respond to life.

When you have desires, goals, and dreams and you turn them into intentions, you create your reality. Then, when the universe begins to respond if you turn it away the universe thinks, “Oh, okay, you don’t want this then.”

When you let go of outcomes, you open yourself up to the universe giving you MORE than what you expect! The universe has a great way of delivering miracles if you allow it.

Let the universe go to work on your behalf and let go of the need to control the outcomes.

I accept what is given. I allow. I receive.

As I said at the beginning of this post, you are powerful beyond your imagination. It's time for you to go create like mad! Be sure to let me know if this post resonated with you. 

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